Everyone has their own twist when it comes to recommendations. What seems to be the foundation is the RaceChip and lightweight wheels. Wheel and tire combo helps in many ways like quicker acceleration, better braking, better handling, higher threshold of grip and better steering feel. Wheels 20 lbs and under is what I recommend.
Engine mods I recommend:
1. The RaceChip!
2. Powerflex lower engine mount bushing inserts.
3. Boomba Racing intake manifold & throttle body spacers.
4. NST water pump pulley.
5. Green Air Filter 7367.
6. Velossa Tech intake scoop.
Wheels and tires:
1. Wheels 20 lbs and lighter (your preference in style).
2. Continental ExtemeContact DWS06 or Pirelli PZero A/S 3 since each commute takes 2 hours. They have good grip and they are not noisy.